Taking care actions and behaviors can help us to create a favorable identity.

Kong Rong, he is a famous person in China, because of a story. This story talks about when Kong Rong was young, he was a polite kid. One day Kong Rong’s father brought a lot of pears and distributed pear to every one in Kong Rong’s family. Kong Rong did not like his peers, took a big pear as soon as possible. He just waited, after everyone had pear he went to take the last pear. However, there was only the smallest pear left. Kong Rong’s grandfather did not bear Kong Rong to eat the smallest pear, so gave Kong Rong a bigger one. Kong Rong said “ you are seniority, you should eat the bigger one. I am enough for this.” Everyone admired Kong Rong’s action and behavior. After Kong Rong grew up, he kept his creed of politeness, so he could be accepted by his friends and colleagues. Finally, he became a minister in Han Dynasty.

We can understand the importance of actions and behaviors. Today, there is a part of student, they are brutal and impolite. They swear their teachers, because of their teachers ask them to wear uniform. Maybe teachers be wrong, but students should not swear. It will leave bad impressions to teachers. One day, you may have problems in school, these teachers won’t help you.

In present day, a favorable identity is much more important. In China, that’s hard to find a good job. You need to have enough knowledge and ability, but all of these cannot show your special. In this harsh competition, you also need to have a favorable identity. Having a favorable identity is not only a help for your job, but also a good manner to get along with people. If you are a benevolent person, when you face to problems, your friend must help you. By contrast, nobody will help a brutal person. So taking care actions and behaviors will help your career and life.